North Carolina Divorce with Children
Everything you need to know about divorce with children in North Carolina — custody types, child support guidelines, parenting plans, and protecting your children through the process. Updated for 2026.
Types of Custody in North Carolina
Legal Custody
The right to make major decisions about your child's education, healthcare, religion, and welfare.
Physical Custody
Determines where the child lives on a day-to-day basis and the parenting time schedule.
"Best Interests of the Child" Factors
North Carolina courts consider multiple factors when determining custody arrangements:
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Child Support in North Carolina
North Carolina uses the Income Shares Model. Both parents' incomes are combined to determine the total child support obligation, which is then allocated proportionally based on each parent's share of combined income. Three worksheets exist: Worksheet A (primary custody -- one parent has child 243+ nights/year), Worksheet B (shared custody -- each parent has child 123+ nights/year), and Worksheet C (split custody -- each parent has primary custody of at least one child). Guidelines were last revised January 1, 2023.
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Mandatory Parenting Course
North Carolina requires both parents to complete a parenting education course when filing for divorce with minor children.
Required in many counties for cases involving minor children. Called 'Parent Education' class. Must be completed before a final custody order is entered. Availability and specific requirements (in-person vs. online) vary by county -- check local court rules.
Typical cost: $60
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What Goes in a Parenting Plan?
A comprehensive parenting plan should cover:
Regular Parenting Schedule
Week-by-week schedule of where the child lives and when transitions occur.
Holiday & Vacation Schedule
How holidays, school breaks, and vacation time are divided between parents.
Decision-Making Authority
Who makes decisions about education, healthcare, extracurriculars, and religious upbringing.
Communication Rules
How the child communicates with the non-custodial parent (phone, video calls, etc.).
Transportation & Exchange
Who handles pickups/dropoffs and where exchanges occur.
Dispute Resolution
How disagreements about the parenting plan will be resolved (mediation first, then court).
Relocation Rules
Notice requirements and procedure if either parent wants to move.
Tips for Protecting Your Children During Divorce
Never speak negatively about the other parent in front of your children. It puts them in the middle and can harm your custody case.
Maintain routines. Keep school, activities, and daily routines as consistent as possible during the transition.
Communicate openly with your children in age-appropriate ways. Let them know the divorce is not their fault.
Consider counseling. A child therapist can help children process their emotions during this time.