South Dakota Divorce with Children

Everything you need to know about divorce with children in South Dakota — custody types, child support guidelines, parenting plans, and protecting your children through the process. Updated for 2026.

Types of Custody in South Dakota

Legal Custody

The right to make major decisions about your child's education, healthcare, religion, and welfare.

Joint:Both parents share decision-making authority
Sole:One parent has exclusive decision-making authority

Physical Custody

Determines where the child lives on a day-to-day basis and the parenting time schedule.

Joint:Child splits time between both households
Primary:Child lives mainly with one parent; other gets visitation

"Best Interests of the Child" Factors

South Dakota courts consider multiple factors when determining custody arrangements:

Parent-Child Bond: The emotional relationship between each parent and the child
Stability: Each parent's ability to provide a stable home environment
Co-Parenting Ability: Each parent's willingness to foster the child's relationship with the other parent
Child's Adjustment: The child's adjustment to home, school, and community
Mental & Physical Health: The mental and physical health of all parties involved
Child's Preference: The child's reasonable preference (if old enough to express one)
History of Abuse: Any history of domestic violence, abuse, or neglect
Work Schedules: Each parent's work schedule and availability to the child

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Child Support in South Dakota

Income shares Model

South Dakota uses the Income Shares Model under SDCL Chapter 25-7. The child support obligation is based on the combined monthly net income of both parents and the number of children. The state provides a Child Support Obligation Schedule that sets the basic support amount. Each parent's share is proportional to their percentage of combined net income. Adjustments are made for health insurance, child care costs, and extraordinary expenses. The guidelines are reviewed every four years as required by federal law.

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Factors Considered

Both parents' gross income
Number of children
Custody arrangement / parenting time
Health insurance costs for children
Childcare expenses
Special needs of the child
Other child support obligations
Standard of living during marriage

Additional Forms Required (Children)

FormName
UJS-312Divorce Complaint With Minor Children
UJS-311Summons With Children
UJS-304BFinancial Affidavit With Minor Children
UJS-364Affidavit on Court-Approved Parenting Course

Mandatory Parenting Course

South Dakota requires both parents to complete a parenting education course when filing for divorce with minor children.

Under SDCL § 25-4-56, both parents must complete a court-approved parenting education course within 60 days of serving the summons and complaint in any case involving child custody or parenting time. The course must be at least four hours and covers the impact of divorce on children. An Affidavit on Court-Approved Parenting Course (UJS-364) must be filed with the court upon completion. Failure to complete the course may delay finalization of the divorce.

Typical cost: $50

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What Goes in a Parenting Plan?

A comprehensive parenting plan should cover:

Regular Parenting Schedule

Week-by-week schedule of where the child lives and when transitions occur.

Holiday & Vacation Schedule

How holidays, school breaks, and vacation time are divided between parents.

Decision-Making Authority

Who makes decisions about education, healthcare, extracurriculars, and religious upbringing.

Communication Rules

How the child communicates with the non-custodial parent (phone, video calls, etc.).

Transportation & Exchange

Who handles pickups/dropoffs and where exchanges occur.

Dispute Resolution

How disagreements about the parenting plan will be resolved (mediation first, then court).

Relocation Rules

Notice requirements and procedure if either parent wants to move.

Tips for Protecting Your Children During Divorce

1.

Never speak negatively about the other parent in front of your children. It puts them in the middle and can harm your custody case.

2.

Maintain routines. Keep school, activities, and daily routines as consistent as possible during the transition.

3.

Communicate openly with your children in age-appropriate ways. Let them know the divorce is not their fault.

4.

Consider counseling. A child therapist can help children process their emotions during this time.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is child custody decided in South Dakota?
South Dakota courts determine custody based on the "best interests of the child" standard. Factors include each parent's relationship with the child, ability to provide stable housing, mental and physical health, and the child's preferences (if old enough). Courts generally favor arrangements that allow both parents significant time with the child.
How is child support calculated in South Dakota?
South Dakota uses the income shares model to calculate child support. South Dakota uses the Income Shares Model under SDCL Chapter 25-7. The child support obligation is based on the combined monthly net income of both parents and the number of children. The state provides a Child Support Obligation Schedule that sets the basic support amount. Each parent's share is proportional to their percentage of combined net income. Adjustments are made for health insurance, child care costs, and extraordinary expenses. The guidelines are reviewed every four years as required by federal law.
Is a parenting course required for divorce with children in South Dakota?
Yes, South Dakota requires parents to complete a parenting course during divorce proceedings. Under SDCL § 25-4-56, both parents must complete a court-approved parenting education course within 60 days of serving the summons and complaint in any case involving child custody or parenting time. The course must be at least four hours and covers the impact of divorce on children. An Affidavit on Court-Approved Parenting Course (UJS-364) must be filed with the court upon completion. Failure to complete the course may delay finalization of the divorce.
What is the difference between legal custody and physical custody in South Dakota?
Legal custody refers to the right to make important decisions about the child's upbringing (education, healthcare, religion). Physical custody refers to where the child lives. Both can be sole (one parent) or joint (shared). South Dakota courts can award different arrangements for legal and physical custody.
Can child support be modified in South Dakota?
Yes, child support orders in South Dakota can be modified when there is a substantial change in circumstances, such as a significant change in either parent's income, changes in custody arrangements, or changes in the child's needs. You must petition the court for a modification.

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